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I help people and organizations win the war on complex illness
by applying military intelligence frameworks
to improve health, wellness, and human services outcomes.
For health, wellness, and human services organizations including insurance companies. healthcare systems, government agencies, disease and patient associations, and more…
Keynote speech: Win the War on Complex Illness which describes one of the Four Steps to Winning a War that your team can apply to improve complex illness outcomes.
Health Intelligence Consulting: Help your team apply all Four Steps to Winning a War to improve complex illness outcomes in your healthcare, wellness, or human services organization.
For people navigating complex illness, their caregivers, and supporters, patient associations, Veteran and civic organizations, and more…
Keynote speech: Heal or Die – an inspiring, practical story of overcoming complex illness empowering people to take control of their healing journey.
Coaching: Care Curation Coaching to help complex illness overcomers more successfully navigate their healing journey. By sharing the complex illness frameworks I developed to navigate my own healing journey, I teach people how to curate their own care to overcome complex illnesses.
Blog: I share the lessons I’ve learned while healing from complex post-traumatic stress disorder, chronic fatigue, medical injury, and developmental illness—all while building a vibrant, purpose-driven life.
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Learn the practical lessons I’ve used to overcome complex post-traumatic stress, chronic illness, and medical injury, and discover how to thrive in your own healing journey. The 3rd edition expands on the Four Steps to Winning a War on Complex Illness.
Join me as I interview people navigating complex illness on my “Healing Journeys” series in The Care We Need Podcast. Each episode uncovers actionable strategies, inspiring stories, and insights that help you or your organization win the war on complex illness.
Watch selected keynotes, podcasts, and talks that show how I engage audiences, share actionable insights, and inspire transformation. Perfect for organizations or individuals who want a preview of what a live event with me looks like.
Shawn Bolz, once recognized for his prophetic ministry, faces serious allegations of misconduct and deception, prompting a public apology from Bethel Church for its association with him. Tenay Benes shares a notice and an apology about…
This is not another ADHD hack. This is a story of how a perimenopausal woman with PTSD got bodywork and discovered she had hidden ADHD. Then, she healed it with this dopamine detox.
Living with a chronic illness that includes fatigue is like being an old iPhone that doesn’t charge like it used to. Here’s what I do to preserve my charge and live a life that matches my…
Help me celebrate my medical retirement from the Army due to PTSD by donating to this amazing Veteran fund at the Rocky Mountain Hyperbaric Association for Brain Injuries, where I’ve been getting free treatment again!
Hi friend! It’s a pleasure to e-meet you! If you’re new to my site, this open letter is expressly for you. Defining the Relationship I want you to know three things about me that might give…
Continued from Love It or Hate It, You Just Might Need It: A Case for Exposure Therapy for Treating Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. Unintentional Exposure Therapy #2: Hyperbaric Oxygen Treatment This story begins as every good Veteran…
This blog was born in June 2021.
As of 25 January 2026,
it has:
231 Published posts
433 Draft posts
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If I have prayed for you on the street & you’d like to find out more about what you experienced or how you can stay healed, please go to the Frequently Asked Questions page. You can also find answers to the most commonly asked questions about C-PTSD & trauma healing there.
